The interest in anal sex ceases to be a perversion, but a pheromone odor preference related to anal secretions that override fecal odors or are obscured by them when hedonic loss of rationality related to pleasure preoccupies us with the erotic quality of penis, buttocks, or vagina. The pelvis is not a cesspool, but a blend wherein pheromonal attraction can prevail over excretory negativity.
Our genitals are not just visual releasers of sexual behavior, but they are I wicks, disseminating sex pheromones that arouse us and divorce us from rationality or time constraints. Genital and facial hair are designed to release or entrap sexual odors. Learn about pheromones at http://astrobiosociety.org/pheromones-and-the-expression/
This article is not written to minimize Freud’s contribution, although it bemoans his having missed odor as a factor in his psychoanalytic thinking. Despite his close friendship with Fleiss, both missed the true significance of nasal structures as sexually responsive receptors to pheromones.
In rethinking odor as a factor in human sexual development, we now open our therapeutic interest in how this knowledge can be used to help people. “Smell" and “scent” is integral to our social and sexual heritage! It patently influences our social, as well as our asocial behavior.
In certain ways, odor provides a new place for Jungian collective consciousness. Unfortunately, what limits our awareness of odor’s place in our folklore and legends is the limitation of our ability to express the quality of sexual odor and its awareness in our vocabulary.
How does one describe the nuance of odor? We need a more adequate vocabulary. But even without the words, pheromonal performance and memory do not necessarily reach our consciousness, although we are preprogrammed to respond to their stimulation in a subconscious manner thanks to http://sundowndivers.org/?p=5.
Humans are, indeed, different from animals because we repress much of our sexual behavior. In the right erotic setting, we behave like animals, but in . the social interplay of our daily lives, we function as if these odors have no effect upon us. This is the true repression that Freud missed in his theoretical constructs that made the subconscious the focus of psychoanalytic theory, and gave us insight to so much of human pheromone behavior according to http://solenoidrocks.com/?p=20.
Freud’s penile envy, as a factor in female identity, should be replaced by the subtle influences of sweat, fatty acids, or pheromonal secretions that separate male from female in a qualitative way, and direct our attention to heterosexual or homosexual attachment.
Pheromones and Sexual Relationships
As a wise man once pointed out hundreds of years ago, the difference between advice and an order, is the ability of the advisee to ignore the advisor. If you are unable to do something else about increasing your pheromones than the advice you are given, then it is a command. With the descriptions you have given, I find it hard to believe that you are content with giving advice that can be ignored if she so wishes. But that would be your role. And I would even go so far as to say, that you should totally refrain from giving unsolicited advice as well.
If she wants to talk about her pheromonal problems, then she has other people in her life. If she wants advice, she can ask for it.